Postscript: Learn to love your body, from relaxing your mind and body to treating yourself kindly.

2026-04-10

Postscript

After giving birth to two children (one of my three children was adopted) and entering the age of fifty...

As I've gotten older, I don't have a perfect figure, but I don't complain too much. It's true, sometimes it's hard to find something that fits well.

I'd wear nice clothes, but I wouldn't trade my body shape for anything. Luckily, on these days...

Instead of wondering what was wrong with my body, I made a proper checklist.

Then, I kept refining the list. I channeled all my resentment and frustration into motivation to do it.

The determination to become better.

We must learn to love our bodies. Research shows that those who are dissatisfied with their bodies...

Both men and women are more prone to anxiety and depression, and are more likely to develop unhealthy habits, such as drinking...

Overeating, binge eating, lack of exercise, and excessive alcohol consumption are all contributing factors.

Fortunately, there are many things you can do to start liking yourself more. You can start with simple things.

I'll start by relaxing my mind and body. After finishing this book, I'll head straight to a spa to unwind.

Let yourself live like a "princess" for a few days. I strongly believe in the power of relaxation: it lets your skin...

Enjoy a restorative and refreshing massage; try a revitalizing body mask; get ready to pamper your skin.

Make yourself look radiant; if you want to lie down and rest, take a few naps. In comfort...

When I want to relax, I light incense and candles or enjoy a hot bubble bath with lots of milk and honey.

Or you can regularly care for your hands and feet to keep them looking elegant and to make your feet feel relaxed and comfortable.

You need to find ways to relax and rejuvenate that make you feel comfortable. Take action now! These actions will...

It helps you rediscover your body and begins to appreciate it more.

You should try to avoid letting your body shape or how you perceive your body shape control your life.

This is a question I often ask my children: "Are you willing to let others criticize you like you do?"

"Appearance?" You'll need to spend more time complimenting yourself. At first, you might not be able to do it. If you...

If you can't say it yourself, ask a caring friend or your spouse to help you list all your strengths.

Point. You don't need to be afraid to take the time to look at your naked body in the mirror. Try to describe your body...

Don't judge your body ("My thighs are muscular").

"Fat." You need to imagine yourself as a happy and healthy person, someone who has achieved and mastered this world.

A person who handles so many important matters.

Your health is far more important than your appearance. I like to focus on how your body functions.

In terms of method: I possess energy, which gives me the ability to ride the horse I like; it grants me...

My body and emotions are filled with joy, allowing me to enjoy life. When I realize it's every day, every hour, every minute...

Every second that bears a heavy burden for me, I've learned to respect my body. Whether I'm walking, washing dishes, or anything else...

Whether washing dishes, ironing clothes, or driving, I'm grateful to my body for supporting me, pulling me along, and lifting me up.

I am capable of helping and loving others. As long as I take care of my body, it won't...

Betrayed me. Therefore, you must resolve to stop abusing your body and begin to appreciate your abilities and heart.

Wisdom, talent, and intelligence-begin to be grateful for everything you have; it's all good and wonderful.

Once I started appreciating the hard work my body did for me, I stopped treating it badly.

I realize that it has served me faithfully, and therefore deserves and needs to be treated well. Treat it well.

The body can be summarized into 5 simple and easy things: sufficient sleep, a healthy diet, and daily exercise.

Exercise, relax, and seek medical attention promptly.

Every morning you wake up to this notification: "Great, you're beautiful (or stylish), and you feel..."

Good. You should list all the amazing things about your body on sticky notes.

Place one on the bathroom mirror, refrigerator, or car dashboard.

Therefore, treat your body well... and your body will treat you well in return. As you learn to love...

In the process of doing it yourself, you will naturally possess everything you've always dreamed of-a slim figure,

A healthy body and a joyful mind. These are gifts you give yourself, and you deserve them!

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